Friday, July 22, 2005

Last Day?

After finish the school yesterday I rushed to Sarikei town to buy some stuff for BBQ this weekend. The Girl Guide goin to Sebangkoi Country Resort tomorrow with their teachers (dunno who...hehehe)

On my way, I called home, asking for my grandpa condition. My mum answered the phone and she told me that he need an operation but none of his sons and daughters were there to sign the form (Chen... what form aaa????). Aunty K supposed to be with him but she didnt come after Aunty M went back early in the morning. I was surprised with that... and feel like want to 'bzt bzt' them... (29th July 2005 - good thing they didnt operate him. Specialist said he is very weak for that... he might left us earlier)

My actual plan is hanging around buying the important things first before visiting my grandpa. So that I can have more time to kacau be with him. I rushed to hospital and meet Uncle E, Uncle R and my cousin T at the hospital canteen. I took my breakfast lunch... 1 'panggang' and Ice Lemon Tea.

I saw lot of my family members... I thought they want to visit my grandpa but why so many???? Then, Uncle R told me that Aunty R is in coma. Instead of visiting my grandpa, I went to the female ward to give my last respects to Aunty R. I saw her husband and her kids sitting around her... While waiting for her Form 3 son from school... her daughter packed all her belonging. She doesn't has much time left. I can't imagine the family member's feeling at that time.

Everybody in the famliy are quite ready for this but we never expect it happen in this short period of time.

I left the female ward with a blur blur feeling... I want to see my grandpa... He looks so ill, make me scared a bit. When he saw me, he hold my hand and start to complain and talk about a lot of things. I asked him to sleep, get some rest.... huh... sorry... he kept on kacau2 the drip tube (duno the name of that thing)... complain the water didnt drop at all. Aiya....

4.30 pm, visiting hours... my relatives come to visit him. I went home after buying some stuffs.

8.00 pm, my dad arrived home. Aunty R is no longer with us anymore.... They had bring the body back for the funeral. Then, this thing cross in my mind...today is Aunty R last day... How's my last day would be? When? *sigh*

7 comments:

Chen said...

the form u mentioned is the consent form for surgery/operation.. Your grandpa can sign the consent form for operation himself but sometimes the doctors want the immediate family members to be informed & give consent as well especially if the operation is high risk.

Sorry to hear about what happened to your Aunt R. My deepest condolence to u & your family members as well as her family members as well.. It's always very painful to lost someone dear to u.. I always tell myself to cherish every moment i have, cos I never know what is gotta happen the next minute. And do not procrastinate things..

Anonymous said...

sorry about ur aunt. my deepest condolences. may your grampa get well soon too. life is really really fragile.

anyway, jeleslah u bbq. jani here not nice. got some weird smell and taste one. thats y usually students dont buy jani here. we become muslim for awhile until we pulai =p


chrissieeeeeeeee

NSDS3HvLDjJd said...

My condolences on your loss.

Fina said...

My condolences.

*hugs*

Memang takdir kita dijadikan, hidup, lepas ya, meninggalkan dunia. Cuma kita ajak nok sik tauk bila. Anyway, hope everything's okay with you and your family, and sorry to hear that a family member has passed away.

Take care.

chris anakapai said...

My deepest condolences and sympathy on the loss of a family member. All of us can relate to the painful memory of death of a loved one. Just be strong and have faith that she has gotten eternal rest with the Lord.

Hope your grandpa get well soon.

Me, this weekend pulai because next week my mum operation to remove growth dlm colon nya. Jadi nurse jaga mak so i bercuti dari kelas for 2 weeks la. Oh ya, Next monday ada 'urusan' di Jabatan Pendaftaran lagi :))

take care

hornbill said...

Frens...Thank you...
Chen, actually my grandpa didnt need that operation. Lain sakit lain yang nak dibedah.
Anyway....he's now with the Lord..no more pain...
Chrissie... ate jani a lot this week.
nsds..pejot..tq. Idup mati kita sik tauk...
Chris... take care ur mum...

annnum said...

deepest condolence 2u n ur family, grace..

i've been through it years ago, but sumtimes i feel like it is just happened yesterday..... miss my grndpa....